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What
is Click-together dating?
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Enter the fast-paced world of Click-together dating, where singles
have the opportunity to date minimum ten singles or more in one evening.
How is this possible, you ask? Each date lasts a mere 10 minutes.
The objective of this Click-together dating is to enable more singles to meet more
friends or to meet a potential companion.
How does it work?
The rules of Click-together dating are quite simple.
A group of singles gathers at a selected venue. Given a nametag, a scorecard
and their sparkling personality, couples are paired off at tables for two
to begin their first date.
They are allowed to discuss anything, except not to give away HP no., house
or office address, email or any information to protect her/his privacy when
there is no mutual interest.
Following 10 minutes of conversation, a bell is rung, and the men move on
to meet their next date until all the dates are completed.
Following each date, participants mark on a card whether they would have
an interest in meeting their date again. If a mutual interest is noted,
Click-together dating organizers provide each party with the other's phone number
the following day.
Note: Click-together does not limit the number of people you have interest
in.
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Is
Click-together dating safe?
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At click-together, the conversations are comfortable and
safe because nobody is allowed to ask you for your last phone number, email
address or home address.
After each event, if both participants indicate that they would like meet
again, we will put them in touch.
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The
Right Number of Minutes for Click-together Date.
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Remember, you're not on a date, you're on placed on a "get-to-know"
each other on the first encounter.
It is a great way to see if you'd be interested to meet up again.
Sometimes 10 minutes is way too long, if you don't like that person. But
at times 10 minutes can be too short if there's physical chemistry, if they
like the way someone speaks, if the person is mature and intelligent, and
if they want to know more. At which point they'd select YES on their Match
Sheet that they would like to hear from that person again!
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Ideal
Number of Dates Per Click-together Dating Event.
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At click-together, we offer minimum 10 dates per session
but in most of our events we offer an average of 12 to 15 couples.
Anything more than this will be very tiring for all the participants.
There is also the problem of remembering the people you "dated"
when you speak to your matches several days later.
Most singles cannot remember every date by the end of the Click-together Dating session.
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Dress
Code for Click-together Dating Events.
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Click-together dating means you are going to meet a lot of people,
so you want to make a good first impression.
Obviously make sure you are freshly showered and that you have your hair
done up.
And when dressing for the big event, dress nicely.
Remember, you aren't going clubbing, and you aren't going to work, either.
So select an outfit that tells people a little about your personality and
interests.
The most important Click-together dating tip: don’t try to look like someone
you aren’t. Be who you are so that you feel confident and comfortable.
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How
to make the right first impression.
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The overall idea, is to make the other person, feel good
about themselves, and to want to talk to you.
Its not just about being entertaining and making them laugh, although if
you have a similar sense of humour then the rest is easy.
Decide what you most want to know about a person, before approaching them.
Not a list of questions but a few ideas.
When approaching someone for the first time, above all else, smile. That
lowers barriers and shows an intention to be friendly.
The first thing you say should be relevant to the occasion or the surroundings,
and not be too personally intrusive etc.
Take an interest in the other person. People mostly like to talk about themselves,
so listen to what they have to say. However, its not an interview, so be
careful. It is important to develop the other persons answers wherever possible.
Try not to offer information about yourself unless asked. You can prompt
questions by offering hints, and asking the other person the same question.
They will normally reciprocate.
Establish areas of common interest. If necessary, save one for later, in
case you get into difficulties.
When you encounter an area of commonality, where possible let the other
person finish what they have to say.
Be complimentary about the other person, and mean it, but be realistic,
say you like their hair, but don't say they have the most amazing hair you
have ever seen, unless its true!
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Advantages
of Click-together Dating
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Supporters of Click-together dating claim it is more efficient and
cost effective than going to a blind date.
Research cost is lower than other types of dating services. Because the
process forces each participant to meet and disclose information about themselves,
more information can be gathered quickly.
As more information is gathered about a person, attractiveness of participants
is given a chance to grow. Also, physical attraction can be judged because
people can see each other. Click-together dating reduces rejection cost for participants.
Real Click-together dating events do not allow participants to ask each other
out.
Only participants that express mutual interest will be given contact
information from event coordinators.
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Is
Click-together Dating Only For The Desperate?
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A common misinterpretation of dating services is that they
are filled with desperate people.
Remember this -- people who seek out a dating
service are taking control of their love life.
Today, Click-together Dating Events are becoming more and more common because the
demands of modern life often inhibit our ability to meet new people and
form new relationships.
Click-together dating, rather than being an activity of the desperate, is instead
an accepted way for busy people to meet each other.
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Are
Click-Together's events meant for networking?
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Click-Together does not allow any participant to do business networking
during any of our sessions.
Participants who wish to join, must realise that our Click-together dating event is desirable
for people who wants to find love, passion, happiness, connection and get married.
Do not register if your intention is to network. Pls stay away.
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After
Click-together Dating Ends
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The event is over. You have some matches. Now what?
1. Follow up in a timely manner. This means in a day or two after you get
your matches. If you can not meet right away, at least contact the person
and let them know why.
2. If you prefer to correspond by email or phone rather than meet, say so
upfront. If you aren't honest about it, you come across as a game player
or disinterested.
3. If after corresponding further or meeting the person, you decide you
have no interest in continuing to explore the possibility of a dating relationship
with the other person, say so. Don't leave it with "I'll call you" or start
making up reasons why you can't go out again. Be kind but remember... it
is much kinder to let the other person know your feelings than it is to
keep them wondering when you are going to call or trying to get another
date.
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What
if you receive no match?
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Come back again! On average our clients attend 3 events!
As every event is different, we encourage you to register for several events.
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How
long does this last?
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It depends on the number of participants. There is one long
break of 30 mins for dinner, 2 short intermissions halfway through the event
to allow for walking, mingling, smoking or going to the washroom. An approximate
time of about 3 hours.
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Comparing
Click-together Dating Events.
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There are few dating event organizers in Malaysia.
You may go to all of them that suits you according to your age, lifestlye
etc.
You may compare the following:
1. There are variations in prices or admission fee.
2. Number of people to meet can be different.
3. Gender balancing in place?
4. Some provide dinner while others provide snacks.
5. Different time and dates
6. Selection by ethnic group(s) or mixed group
7. Difference in age category
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